They said:
"You're too sensitive."
"You're too needy."
"You're too emotional."
"You're too much."
You're not.
The Truth
You're not:
Too much.
You're just:
Too much:
For them.
The right people:
Will never make you feel:
Like you're:
Too anything.
What "Too Much" Really Means
"Too Sensitive"
Translation:
"I don't want to be accountable for hurting you."
"Too Needy"
Translation:
"I don't want to meet your needs."
"Too Emotional"
Translation:
"Your feelings are inconvenient."
"Too Much"
Translation:
"You're asking me to show up, and I don't want to."
What Actually Happened
You had:
- Needs
- Feelings
- Boundaries
- Standards
They couldn't:
Or wouldn't:
Meet them.
So they made:
YOU:
The problem.
The Right Person
Won't say:
"You're too much."
They'll say:
"I love how deeply you feel."
"Your needs matter to me."
"I want to show up for you."
You're not too much.
You were just:
With the wrong person.
About 4Angles: You're not "too much"—you're too much for the wrong people. The right ones will never make you feel like you need to shrink.
Last updated: November 2, 2025