Stop:
Chasing.
Begging.
Convincing.
Fighting for.
People who:
Aren't fighting for you.
The Truth
If they wanted to:
They would.
- Stay
- Call
- Make plans
- Put in effort
- Choose you
If they're not:
It's not because:
They can't.
It's because:
They don't want to.
What You're Teaching Them
When you fight:
For someone:
Who isn't fighting for you:
You teach them:
They can:
- Give minimal effort
- Show up when convenient
- Take you for granted
- Leave and come back
And you'll:
Still be there.
What to Do Instead
Let them leave.
Without:
- Chasing
- Begging
- Explaining
- Convincing
If they come back:
With real effort:
Consider it.
If they don't:
You have your answer.
Relationships that require:
Constant fighting:
Aren't worth having.
About 4Angles: Stop fighting for people who aren't fighting for you. If they wanted to, they would. Let them leave—the right people won't make you chase.
Last updated: November 2, 2025