They can say:
"I love you."
"I'll change."
"You mean everything to me."
"I'm sorry."
Words are easy.
Watch what they DO.
The Gap
Between:
What they say.
And what they do.
That gap:
Tells you everything.
They Say:
"I'll call you later."
They Do:
Don't call.
They Say:
"You're my priority."
They Do:
Cancel plans repeatedly.
They Say:
"I'll change."
They Do:
Keep doing the same thing.
They Say:
"I love you."
They Do:
Treat you poorly.
What to Believe
Not:
Their words.
But:
Their consistent actions.
Because:
Anyone can say:
The right things.
Few:
Actually do them.
The Pattern
Pay attention:
To patterns.
One-time actions:
Could be mistakes.
Repeated actions:
Are choices.
Believe:
The pattern.
Not the apology.
About 4Angles: Words are cheap. Actions reveal truth. If someone's actions don't match their words, believe the actions—they're showing you who they really are.
Last updated: November 2, 2025