Cognitive Dissonance: Why Smart People Believe Stupid Things (And Defend Them)

The Phenomenon Where Your Brain Lies to You

You believe X.

You encounter undeniable evidence that X is false.

Your brain's options:

Change your belief (uncomfortable, ego-threatening)
Rationalize the evidence away (comfortable, ego-protecting)

Guess which one wins?

Examples:

You bought an expensive product that's terrible.

Option 1: "I wasted money. I made a bad decision."
Option 2: "Actually, it's great! Here's why it's actually good..."

You voted for someone who does terrible things.

Option 1: "I made a mistake. My judgment was wrong."
Option 2: "Actually, those things aren't that bad. Here's why it's justified..."

You spent 10 years in a career you hate.

Option 1: "I wasted a decade. I should have quit earlier."
Option 2: "Actually, this is valuable experience. It's all part of the plan..."

The pattern: Your brain rewrites reality to protect your ego and maintain consistency.

This isn't stupidity. It's cognitive dissonance.

And you're doing it right now without realizing it.

What Cognitive Dissonance Actually Is

The Research

Leon Festinger's 1957 study:

Participants did a boring task, then were paid to tell others it was interesting.

Two groups:

Group A: Paid $20 to lie
Group B: Paid $1 to lie

Then asked: "Did you actually find the task interesting?"

The results:

Group A (paid $20): "No, it was boring. I lied for money."
Group B (paid $1): "Actually, yeah, it was kind of interesting!"

Why?

Group A: Big payment justifies lying. No dissonance.

Group B: $1 doesn't justify lying. Dissonance created.

"I lied for $1" = uncomfortable
"I didn't lie, I actually found it interesting" = comfortable

Their brain changed their belief to match their behavior.

The Definition

Cognitive dissonance: The mental discomfort you feel when holding contradictory beliefs, or when your behavior contradicts your beliefs.

Your brain HATES inconsistency.

When faced with contradictions, your brain does mental gymnastics to restore consistency—even if it means believing false things.

How Cognitive Dissonance Works

The Dissonance Triggers

Trigger 1: Belief vs Belief You believe two things that contradict each other.

Example:

"I'm a good person" + "I did something harmful"
Dissonance → "It wasn't actually harmful" or "They deserved it"

Trigger 2: Belief vs Behavior Your actions contradict your beliefs.

Example:

Believe: "I care about health"
Behavior: Smoking, eating junk, not exercising
Dissonance → "Health advice is overblown" or "I'll start tomorrow"

Trigger 3: Belief vs Evidence Facts contradict what you believe.

Example:

Believe: "My investment strategy is smart"
Evidence: Losing money for 3 years
Dissonance → "The market is irrational" or "It'll turn around"

Trigger 4: Choice Creates Commitment Making a choice forces you to defend it.

Example:

Choose option A over option B
Before choice: Both seemed equal
After choice: A is amazing, B is terrible
Why: Brain justifies your choice by creating false superiority

The Resolution Strategies (How Your Brain Lies)

Your brain can resolve dissonance in 3 ways:

Strategy 1: Change belief to match reality (Rare, uncomfortable) "I was wrong. I need to update my belief."

Strategy 2: Change reality to match belief (If possible) Take action that makes beliefs and reality consistent.

Strategy 3: Rationalize the contradiction (Most common) Generate justifications that make the contradiction feel resolved.

Guess which one your brain defaults to?

#3. Always #3.

Real Examples of Cognitive Dissonance

Example 1: The Terrible Purchase

You buy an expensive product.

It's clearly terrible.

Cognitive dissonance:

Belief: "I'm smart with money"
Reality: "I wasted money on garbage"
Dissonance trigger activated

Resolution options:

❌ Honest: "I made a bad purchase. I should return it."

✅ Brain's choice: "Actually, it's not that bad. It has some good features. People just don't understand it. I'm happy with it."

Result: You defend the terrible purchase because admitting waste = ego threat.

Example 2: The Sunk Cost Relationship

You've been in a relationship for 5 years.

It's clearly not working.

Cognitive dissonance:

Behavior: "I've invested 5 years here"
Reality: "This relationship is making me miserable"
Dissonance trigger activated

Resolution options:

❌ Honest: "This isn't working. Those 5 years are sunk cost. I should leave."

✅ Brain's choice: "Actually, we're just going through a rough patch. Every relationship has problems. If I just try harder..."

Result: You stay in a bad relationship because admitting wasted time = ego threat.

Example 3: The Career Commitment

You spent 10 years building a career you hate.

Cognitive dissonance:

Belief: "I make good decisions"
Reality: "I'm miserable in this career"
Dissonance trigger activated

Resolution options:

❌ Honest: "I chose wrong. I should pivot, even though I've invested years."

✅ Brain's choice: "Actually, every career has rough parts. I'm learning valuable skills. It'll get better. Quitting is for people who don't commit."

Result: You stay miserable because admitting wrong choice = ego threat.

Example 4: The Political Belief

You strongly support political figure X.

Figure X does something objectively terrible.

Cognitive dissonance:

Belief: "I support good people"
Reality: "Person X did something bad"
Dissonance trigger activated

Resolution options:

❌ Honest: "That was wrong. I'm disappointed in them."

✅ Brain's choice: "Actually, it's not that bad. The other side does worse. It's taken out of context. The media is lying."

Result: You defend the indefensible because admitting bad judgment = identity threat.

The Signs of Cognitive Dissonance

Sign #1: You're Defending Something That's Clearly Wrong

Pattern: You find yourself generating increasingly creative justifications for something that's obviously problematic.

Example: "Yes, they lied, but technically it was just stretching the truth, and everyone does that, and actually it wasn't even important, and..."

What's happening: Cognitive dissonance. Your brain is rationalizing to protect your prior commitment.

Sign #2: You Feel Uncomfortable Admitting You Were Wrong

Pattern: Even when shown clear evidence, you feel emotional resistance to updating your belief.

What this feels like: Physical discomfort. Defensiveness. Irritation.

What's happening: Dissonance. Your brain perceives "being wrong" as identity threat.

Sign #3: You're Justifying Inconsistent Positions

Pattern: You hold standard A for your in-group, standard B for out-group.

Example:

Your side does X: "That's smart strategy."
Other side does X: "That's unethical manipulation."

What's happening: Cognitive dissonance resolution. You're rationalizing inconsistency to maintain "we're good, they're bad."

Sign #4: You Escalate Commitment After Negative Feedback

Pattern: The more evidence piles up that you're wrong, the MORE committed you become.

Example:

Investment losing money → "I need to invest more to average down!"
Business failing → "I just need to commit harder!"
Relationship terrible → "I just need to try more!"

What's happening: Dissonance reduction through recommitment. Admitting mistake = ego death, so brain doubles down.

How to Spot Cognitive Dissonance in Others

Red Flag #1: Creative Rationalizations

Pattern: Their explanation gets increasingly complex and creative to justify their position.

Example: "Yes, but actually, you see, when you consider [10 layers of justification], it actually makes sense..."

What this means: They're not reasoning to truth. They're reasoning to consistency.

Red Flag #2: Moving Goalposts

Pattern: When you disprove claim A, they shift to claim B, then C, then D.

Example: "It works because of X." "X is disproven." "Well, actually it works because of Y." "Y is disproven." "Well, the real reason is Z..."

What this means: They're committed to the conclusion, not the reasoning. Dissonance in action.

Red Flag #3: Attacking the Source, Not the Argument

Pattern: When shown contradictory evidence, they attack the messenger rather than engage with the message.

Example: "Of course THEY would say that. They're biased/paid off/part of the conspiracy."

What this means: Dissonance reduction. Dismissing evidence that threatens their belief.

Red Flag #4: Sunk Cost Defense

Pattern: "I've already invested too much to quit now."

What this means: Cognitive dissonance between "I've spent time/money/energy" and "this isn't working."

Resolution: Recommit rather than admit waste.

How to Overcome Cognitive Dissonance in Yourself

Strategy #1: Recognize the Feeling

The practice: When you feel defensive about contradictory evidence, PAUSE.

Ask yourself:

"Why am I uncomfortable right now?"
"What am I protecting?"
"Is this dissonance talking, or genuine evaluation?"

The goal: Catch dissonance BEFORE your brain generates rationalizations.

Strategy #2: Separate Identity From Belief

The reframe:

❌ "Being wrong = I'm stupid"

✅ "Being wrong = I learned something new"

The practice: "My belief was wrong" ≠ "I am wrong."

You're not your beliefs. You're the person who updates beliefs based on evidence.

Strategy #3: Pre-Commit to Evidence That Would Change Your Mind

The practice: Before encountering evidence, state:

"What evidence would change my mind on this?"

Why this works: You've now committed to a standard BEFORE dissonance activates.

When evidence arrives, you can point to your pre-commitment.

Strategy #4: Calculate Sunk Costs Explicitly

The practice: When tempted to recommit because of past investment, calculate:

"If I started from zero today, knowing what I know, would I make this choice?"

If no: Sunk costs are irrelevant. The only question is forward value.

If yes: You're recommitting for genuine reasons, not dissonance.

Strategy #5: Seek Out Disconfirming Information Actively

The practice: Don't wait for contradictory evidence to find you.

Actively search for it.

Why this works:

Reduces defensiveness (you're seeking, not defending)
Inoculates against dissonance (you're prepared for contradictions)
Demonstrates genuine truth-seeking

The Rationalization Patterns to Watch For

Pattern #1: "It's Not That Bad"

Translation: "It's bad, but admitting that creates dissonance with my choice/belief, so I'm minimizing."

Pattern #2: "Everyone Does It"

Translation: "I need to justify my behavior, so I'm normalizing it by claiming universality."

Pattern #3: "It'll Get Better"

Translation: "It's not getting better, but admitting that means admitting I made a wrong choice, so I'm projecting false hope."

Pattern #4: "The Other Side Is Worse"

Translation: "I can't defend my choice on its merits, so I'm comparing to something worse to create relative justification."

Pattern #5: "I'm Just Being Loyal / Committed"

Translation: "Sunk cost fallacy dressed up as virtue. I'm recommitting to avoid admitting waste."

Pattern #6: "You Just Don't Understand"

Translation: "Your criticism creates dissonance, so I'm dismissing your perspective rather than engaging with it."

When Cognitive Dissonance Is Actually Useful

Dissonance can drive positive change when used correctly:

Scenario 1: Behavior vs Values

Dissonance: "I value health but I smoke."

Bad resolution: "Smoking isn't that bad actually."

Good resolution: "I need to quit smoking."

When it works: Dissonance motivates behavior change rather than belief change.

Scenario 2: New Evidence vs Old Belief

Dissonance: "I believed X, but evidence shows Y."

Bad resolution: "That evidence doesn't count."

Good resolution: "I was wrong about X. I now believe Y."

When it works: Dissonance motivates belief update rather than rationalization.

The key: Direct dissonance toward growth, not rationalization.

The 4 Tests for Cognitive Dissonance

1. SIGNAL: Am I reasoning to truth or to consistency?

Am I evaluating evidence, or generating justifications?

2. OPPORTUNITY: What would I believe if I had no prior commitment?

Starting from zero, would I reach this conclusion?

3. RISK: Am I defending this position because it's right or because I'm invested?

Honest answer: is this sunk cost, or genuine belief?

4. AFFECT: How does admitting I'm wrong actually feel?

If it feels like ego death, cognitive dissonance is active.

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The Phenomenon Where Your Brain Lies to You

You believe X.

You encounter undeniable evidence that X is false.

Your brain's options:

Change your belief (uncomfortable, ego-threatening)
Rationalize the evidence away (comfortable, ego-protecting)

Guess which one wins?

Examples:

You bought an expensive product that's terrible.

Option 1: "I wasted money. I made a bad decision."
Option 2: "Actually, it's great! Here's why it's actually good..."

You voted for someone who does terrible things.

Option 1: "I made a mistake. My judgment was wrong."
Option 2: "Actually, those things aren't that bad. Here's why it's justified..."

You spent 10 years in a career you hate.

Option 1: "I wasted a decade. I should have quit earlier."
Option 2: "Actually, this is valuable experience. It's all part of the plan..."

The pattern: Your brain rewrites reality to protect your ego and maintain consistency.

This isn't stupidity. It's cognitive dissonance.

And you're doing it right now without realizing it.

What Cognitive Dissonance Actually Is

The Research

Leon Festinger's 1957 study:

Participants did a boring task, then were paid to tell others it was interesting.

Two groups:

Group A: Paid $20 to lie
Group B: Paid $1 to lie

Then asked: "Did you actually find the task interesting?"

The results:

Group A (paid $20): "No, it was boring. I lied for money."
Group B (paid $1): "Actually, yeah, it was kind of interesting!"

Why?

Group A: Big payment justifies lying. No dissonance.

Group B: $1 doesn't justify lying. Dissonance created.

"I lied for $1" = uncomfortable
"I didn't lie, I actually found it interesting" = comfortable

Their brain changed their belief to match their behavior.

The Definition

Cognitive dissonance: The mental discomfort you feel when holding contradictory beliefs, or when your behavior contradicts your beliefs.

Your brain HATES inconsistency.

When faced with contradictions, your brain does mental gymnastics to restore consistency—even if it means believing false things.

How Cognitive Dissonance Works

The Dissonance Triggers

Trigger 1: Belief vs Belief You believe two things that contradict each other.

Example:

"I'm a good person" + "I did something harmful"
Dissonance → "It wasn't actually harmful" or "They deserved it"

Trigger 2: Belief vs Behavior Your actions contradict your beliefs.

Example:

Believe: "I care about health"
Behavior: Smoking, eating junk, not exercising
Dissonance → "Health advice is overblown" or "I'll start tomorrow"

Trigger 3: Belief vs Evidence Facts contradict what you believe.

Example:

Believe: "My investment strategy is smart"
Evidence: Losing money for 3 years
Dissonance → "The market is irrational" or "It'll turn around"

Trigger 4: Choice Creates Commitment Making a choice forces you to defend it.

Example:

Choose option A over option B
Before choice: Both seemed equal
After choice: A is amazing, B is terrible
Why: Brain justifies your choice by creating false superiority

The Resolution Strategies (How Your Brain Lies)

Your brain can resolve dissonance in 3 ways:

Strategy 1: Change belief to match reality (Rare, uncomfortable) "I was wrong. I need to update my belief."

Strategy 2: Change reality to match belief (If possible) Take action that makes beliefs and reality consistent.

Strategy 3: Rationalize the contradiction (Most common) Generate justifications that make the contradiction feel resolved.

Guess which one your brain defaults to?

#3. Always #3.

Real Examples of Cognitive Dissonance

Example 1: The Terrible Purchase

You buy an expensive product.

It's clearly terrible.

Cognitive dissonance:

Belief: "I'm smart with money"
Reality: "I wasted money on garbage"
Dissonance trigger activated

Resolution options:

❌ Honest: "I made a bad purchase. I should return it."

✅ Brain's choice: "Actually, it's not that bad. It has some good features. People just don't understand it. I'm happy with it."

Result: You defend the terrible purchase because admitting waste = ego threat.

Example 2: The Sunk Cost Relationship

You've been in a relationship for 5 years.

It's clearly not working.

Cognitive dissonance:

Behavior: "I've invested 5 years here"
Reality: "This relationship is making me miserable"
Dissonance trigger activated

Resolution options:

❌ Honest: "This isn't working. Those 5 years are sunk cost. I should leave."

✅ Brain's choice: "Actually, we're just going through a rough patch. Every relationship has problems. If I just try harder..."

Result: You stay in a bad relationship because admitting wasted time = ego threat.

Example 3: The Career Commitment

You spent 10 years building a career you hate.

Cognitive dissonance:

Belief: "I make good decisions"
Reality: "I'm miserable in this career"
Dissonance trigger activated

Resolution options:

❌ Honest: "I chose wrong. I should pivot, even though I've invested years."

✅ Brain's choice: "Actually, every career has rough parts. I'm learning valuable skills. It'll get better. Quitting is for people who don't commit."

Result: You stay miserable because admitting wrong choice = ego threat.

Example 4: The Political Belief

You strongly support political figure X.

Figure X does something objectively terrible.

Cognitive dissonance:

Belief: "I support good people"
Reality: "Person X did something bad"
Dissonance trigger activated

Resolution options:

❌ Honest: "That was wrong. I'm disappointed in them."

✅ Brain's choice: "Actually, it's not that bad. The other side does worse. It's taken out of context. The media is lying."

Result: You defend the indefensible because admitting bad judgment = identity threat.

The Signs of Cognitive Dissonance

Sign #1: You're Defending Something That's Clearly Wrong

Pattern: You find yourself generating increasingly creative justifications for something that's obviously problematic.

Example: "Yes, they lied, but technically it was just stretching the truth, and everyone does that, and actually it wasn't even important, and..."

What's happening: Cognitive dissonance. Your brain is rationalizing to protect your prior commitment.

Sign #2: You Feel Uncomfortable Admitting You Were Wrong

Pattern: Even when shown clear evidence, you feel emotional resistance to updating your belief.

What this feels like: Physical discomfort. Defensiveness. Irritation.

What's happening: Dissonance. Your brain perceives "being wrong" as identity threat.

Sign #3: You're Justifying Inconsistent Positions

Pattern: You hold standard A for your in-group, standard B for out-group.

Example:

Your side does X: "That's smart strategy."
Other side does X: "That's unethical manipulation."

What's happening: Cognitive dissonance resolution. You're rationalizing inconsistency to maintain "we're good, they're bad."

Sign #4: You Escalate Commitment After Negative Feedback

Pattern: The more evidence piles up that you're wrong, the MORE committed you become.

Example:

Investment losing money → "I need to invest more to average down!"
Business failing → "I just need to commit harder!"
Relationship terrible → "I just need to try more!"

What's happening: Dissonance reduction through recommitment. Admitting mistake = ego death, so brain doubles down.

How to Spot Cognitive Dissonance in Others

Red Flag #1: Creative Rationalizations

Pattern: Their explanation gets increasingly complex and creative to justify their position.

Example: "Yes, but actually, you see, when you consider [10 layers of justification], it actually makes sense..."

What this means: They're not reasoning to truth. They're reasoning to consistency.

Red Flag #2: Moving Goalposts

Pattern: When you disprove claim A, they shift to claim B, then C, then D.

Example: "It works because of X." "X is disproven." "Well, actually it works because of Y." "Y is disproven." "Well, the real reason is Z..."

What this means: They're committed to the conclusion, not the reasoning. Dissonance in action.

Red Flag #3: Attacking the Source, Not the Argument

Pattern: When shown contradictory evidence, they attack the messenger rather than engage with the message.

Example: "Of course THEY would say that. They're biased/paid off/part of the conspiracy."

What this means: Dissonance reduction. Dismissing evidence that threatens their belief.

Red Flag #4: Sunk Cost Defense

Pattern: "I've already invested too much to quit now."

What this means: Cognitive dissonance between "I've spent time/money/energy" and "this isn't working."

Resolution: Recommit rather than admit waste.

How to Overcome Cognitive Dissonance in Yourself

Strategy #1: Recognize the Feeling

The practice: When you feel defensive about contradictory evidence, PAUSE.

Ask yourself:

"Why am I uncomfortable right now?"
"What am I protecting?"
"Is this dissonance talking, or genuine evaluation?"

The goal: Catch dissonance BEFORE your brain generates rationalizations.

Strategy #2: Separate Identity From Belief

The reframe:

❌ "Being wrong = I'm stupid"

✅ "Being wrong = I learned something new"

The practice: "My belief was wrong" ≠ "I am wrong."

You're not your beliefs. You're the person who updates beliefs based on evidence.

Strategy #3: Pre-Commit to Evidence That Would Change Your Mind

The practice: Before encountering evidence, state:

"What evidence would change my mind on this?"

Why this works: You've now committed to a standard BEFORE dissonance activates.

When evidence arrives, you can point to your pre-commitment.

Strategy #4: Calculate Sunk Costs Explicitly

The practice: When tempted to recommit because of past investment, calculate:

"If I started from zero today, knowing what I know, would I make this choice?"

If no: Sunk costs are irrelevant. The only question is forward value.

If yes: You're recommitting for genuine reasons, not dissonance.

Strategy #5: Seek Out Disconfirming Information Actively

The practice: Don't wait for contradictory evidence to find you.

Actively search for it.

Why this works:

Reduces defensiveness (you're seeking, not defending)
Inoculates against dissonance (you're prepared for contradictions)
Demonstrates genuine truth-seeking

The Rationalization Patterns to Watch For

Pattern #1: "It's Not That Bad"

Translation: "It's bad, but admitting that creates dissonance with my choice/belief, so I'm minimizing."

Pattern #2: "Everyone Does It"

Translation: "I need to justify my behavior, so I'm normalizing it by claiming universality."

Pattern #3: "It'll Get Better"

Translation: "It's not getting better, but admitting that means admitting I made a wrong choice, so I'm projecting false hope."

Pattern #4: "The Other Side Is Worse"

Translation: "I can't defend my choice on its merits, so I'm comparing to something worse to create relative justification."

Pattern #5: "I'm Just Being Loyal / Committed"

Translation: "Sunk cost fallacy dressed up as virtue. I'm recommitting to avoid admitting waste."

Pattern #6: "You Just Don't Understand"

Translation: "Your criticism creates dissonance, so I'm dismissing your perspective rather than engaging with it."

When Cognitive Dissonance Is Actually Useful

Dissonance can drive positive change when used correctly:

Scenario 1: Behavior vs Values

Dissonance: "I value health but I smoke."

Bad resolution: "Smoking isn't that bad actually."

Good resolution: "I need to quit smoking."

When it works: Dissonance motivates behavior change rather than belief change.

Scenario 2: New Evidence vs Old Belief

Dissonance: "I believed X, but evidence shows Y."

Bad resolution: "That evidence doesn't count."

Good resolution: "I was wrong about X. I now believe Y."

When it works: Dissonance motivates belief update rather than rationalization.

The key: Direct dissonance toward growth, not rationalization.

The 4 Tests for Cognitive Dissonance

1. SIGNAL: Am I reasoning to truth or to consistency?

Am I evaluating evidence, or generating justifications?

2. OPPORTUNITY: What would I believe if I had no prior commitment?

Starting from zero, would I reach this conclusion?

3. RISK: Am I defending this position because it's right or because I'm invested?

Honest answer: is this sunk cost, or genuine belief?

4. AFFECT: How does admitting I'm wrong actually feel?

If it feels like ego death, cognitive dissonance is active.

Check Your Reasoning for Cognitive Dissonance

Not sure if you're reasoning objectively or rationalizing?

Analyze your thinking free with 4Angles →

Input your reasoning. See how it scores on:

SIGNAL (Are you seeking truth or consistency?)
OPPORTUNITY (What are you not seeing due to commitment?)
RISK (Are you rationalizing instead of evaluating?)
AFFECT (Is dissonance driving your conclusions?)

Get specific guidance on objective reasoning.

No signup required. Just instant analysis.

Cognitive Dissonance: Why Smart People Believe Stupid Things (And Defend Them)

The Phenomenon Where Your Brain Lies to You

What Cognitive Dissonance Actually Is

The Research

The Definition

How Cognitive Dissonance Works

The Dissonance Triggers

The Resolution Strategies (How Your Brain Lies)

Real Examples of Cognitive Dissonance

Example 1: The Terrible Purchase

Example 2: The Sunk Cost Relationship

Example 3: The Career Commitment

Example 4: The Political Belief

The Signs of Cognitive Dissonance

Sign #1: You're Defending Something That's Clearly Wrong

Sign #2: You Feel Uncomfortable Admitting You Were Wrong

Sign #3: You're Justifying Inconsistent Positions

Sign #4: You Escalate Commitment After Negative Feedback

How to Spot Cognitive Dissonance in Others

Red Flag #1: Creative Rationalizations

Red Flag #2: Moving Goalposts

Red Flag #3: Attacking the Source, Not the Argument

Red Flag #4: Sunk Cost Defense

How to Overcome Cognitive Dissonance in Yourself

Strategy #1: Recognize the Feeling

Strategy #2: Separate Identity From Belief

Strategy #3: Pre-Commit to Evidence That Would Change Your Mind

Strategy #4: Calculate Sunk Costs Explicitly

Strategy #5: Seek Out Disconfirming Information Actively

The Rationalization Patterns to Watch For

Pattern #1: "It's Not That Bad"

Pattern #2: "Everyone Does It"

Pattern #3: "It'll Get Better"

Pattern #4: "The Other Side Is Worse"

Pattern #5: "I'm Just Being Loyal / Committed"

Pattern #6: "You Just Don't Understand"

When Cognitive Dissonance Is Actually Useful

The 4 Tests for Cognitive Dissonance

1. SIGNAL: Am I reasoning to truth or to consistency?

2. OPPORTUNITY: What would I believe if I had no prior commitment?

3. RISK: Am I defending this position because it's right or because I'm invested?

4. AFFECT: How does admitting I'm wrong actually feel?

Check Your Reasoning for Cognitive Dissonance

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Cognitive Dissonance: Why Smart People Believe Stupid Things (And Defend Them)

The Phenomenon Where Your Brain Lies to You

What Cognitive Dissonance Actually Is

The Research

The Definition

How Cognitive Dissonance Works

The Dissonance Triggers

The Resolution Strategies (How Your Brain Lies)

Real Examples of Cognitive Dissonance

Example 1: The Terrible Purchase

Example 2: The Sunk Cost Relationship

Example 3: The Career Commitment

Example 4: The Political Belief

The Signs of Cognitive Dissonance

Sign #1: You're Defending Something That's Clearly Wrong

Sign #2: You Feel Uncomfortable Admitting You Were Wrong

Sign #3: You're Justifying Inconsistent Positions

Sign #4: You Escalate Commitment After Negative Feedback

How to Spot Cognitive Dissonance in Others

Red Flag #1: Creative Rationalizations

Red Flag #2: Moving Goalposts

Red Flag #3: Attacking the Source, Not the Argument

Red Flag #4: Sunk Cost Defense

How to Overcome Cognitive Dissonance in Yourself

Strategy #1: Recognize the Feeling

Strategy #2: Separate Identity From Belief

Strategy #3: Pre-Commit to Evidence That Would Change Your Mind

Strategy #4: Calculate Sunk Costs Explicitly

Strategy #5: Seek Out Disconfirming Information Actively

The Rationalization Patterns to Watch For

Pattern #1: "It's Not That Bad"

Pattern #2: "Everyone Does It"

Pattern #3: "It'll Get Better"

Pattern #4: "The Other Side Is Worse"

Pattern #5: "I'm Just Being Loyal / Committed"